Long Distance Relationship And Breaking Up

I found an article from my friend's blog.Quite interesting story.



"Me and my high school sweetheart were together for about 2 years. We broke up 2 years ago. The reason.. I'm staying where I am now, and he's leaving for his studies. It would take about 6 years to complete his studies in KL and US. We broke up before he left, it was his idea. He mentioned about us going different paths, and would not see each other for a long time. He did not give me any promises to wait for us to graduate or ask me to wait for him, although I wished that he could at least ask.

He's more mature than me, and maybe he knows that he can't 'tie' me since he's not sure about his future, if our long-distanced relationship would survive. Actually I don't mind waiting for him at all, but I never told him that. I didn't want to give him any burden when he needs full concentration on studies. He told me that if we're really meant for each other, even the east and west can't separate us. When we broke up, he told me he wants to focus on his studies and would not think of having any girlfriend yet.

I took it as a promise he gave that he would want me back someday if he wants to be romantically involved with someone again someday. We were each other's first love, and the only love until now. I missed him a lot in these 2 years after we broke up. Sometimes I just wonder if he misses me too. We accidentally bumped into each other last December when he was back from KL and it really caught me off guard. We were both shocked. Not even knowing what to say. I wished so much that he would talk to me, but he didn't. (Well, I didn't take the chance start a conversation too.) On my birthday, he would send me an sms and wish me Happy Birthday.

I was really thrilled and that was the only present I wanted. So, I sent him an email, telling him how I felt when I met him that day. I told him I didn't email him or call him or find him in msn because I'm not sure if he feels comfortable that way. But today, he sent me an offline message saying that he read my email and he told me to drop by anytime when i wanna chat, he said he doesn't mind. I don't know if he has already gotten over me, but one thing I'm sure is that I still like him, and part of my heart is telling me to wait for him. I've never met anyone that makes me feels the same way after we broke up. I've tried to get over him again and again, but sometimes I still believe there's possibilities that we would be together again someday. I keep reminding myself that he's just being friendly, and it has nothing to do with any other special feelings. But I couldn't persuade myself. What do you think about my story?

Is it very silly of me not to tell him that I wanted to wait for him? Or I shouldn't even be waiting at all? It was really tough for me for the first half year after we broke up, because I agreed the break very unwillingly, although knowing the reason is really reasonable. It's the best for us."




I really feel that this girl very stupid. I don't understand why she wan break up at the beginning. Just go other state study , that all only. Not mean that he will never come back. And that day he also came back and met with her.

Study just a reason to lie each other. If he really is mature, then he should know that love and study can be separately handle. And she should let him know exactly what she felt with him. Maybe the result wont be same anymore.

I very 佩服 the girl also, can wait untill 2 years after the break.

Happy 92th birthday to my Grandpa

Wow. My ah kong is already 92 years old. You see inside the picture he still so strong.

You all see the child with my grandpa.They all say when i small just like him.Lol

Now average eh people also live until 70-80 only.I havent told you all that my grandpa got a cousin even older, that is 106 years old. Unbelievable izzit?

I heard people said that short people have longer life because the heart no need pump so much to whole body. I already short and my grandpa even shorter than me ko.Maybe is genetic problem also. Maybe I also will live untill over 100 something, who know? Haha.

That day night we went to a restaurant eat. It located beside the jelutong high way there. Hmm, at Shell petrol station there. I advice you all don't go there try. Because it's expensive and no good. It cost us 2.6k for 3 table. Dammit, charge also 200 already. Damn crazy restaurant .

The Day Of Wedding

Damn damn that day so busy. I have to be the driver.

So shock that I've been ask to drive the 1st car- Camry . Got 2 main car, 1 is camry and another 1 is my mum's civic.

When reach at the bride house, then they starting to play. Ko eat geli eh food, ko pumping , ko sing. Then tio start to "lim teh" liao.



After "lim teh", biao ge and biao shao start to give ang pao. I cant take because is at girl side. So many wedding eh tradition that i duno .
After finish "lim teh" at the girl side. Then tio go to my biao ge house. I need to go in their room and "zeng1 tang3 phui3". Know? A thing that last time people use to pee into it. Then it cover with red paper then i need to break the paper and take the inside 2 orange and an ang pou. Somemore need me to roll on their bed because they say dragon year eh people roll very good 1.Wakaka, that day i totaly get RM40 something ang pao. 1 is as a driver, another is "zeng tang phui", and last is they extra give me, haha.


After that tio go to the boy side "lim teh".My grandma and grandpa damn happy. My grandma somemore give the bride a gold necklace. She didnt even tear off the price tag, haha.

They both looking at me wor. Izzit wan me "lim teh" also? Lol

The 伴郎 and 伴侣 looks like couple right. Actually they were couple before, but now no more already.



My grandma and grandpa have 6 daugther and 4 son. All inside this picture.




Lol. All people watching my biao ge kissing.

Me and my gf

Biao shao and my gf


My gf and my grandma

"Lao Tia Meh"

Haha. 6 of march is my cousin "Lao Tia Meh"

Got one "Seh Kia Hmm" damn very funny. Make all of us laugh non stop. Always say many dirty eh thing.

See her shoes , so high.

my biao ge wearing pyjamas

Damn this is a crazy "seh kia hmm"

The Day Before Wedding

Wakaka...!! Is the day before wedding..! Sorry for such in hurry. Forget to inform u all.

Yeah! I'm gonna marry tomorrow. Today i went to the bridal house to 绑花车.




Stay tune for further news..!!! I will update tomorrow if I'm free.

Every Month 28

Today is my parent 27 wedding anniversary ,and also the day of me and my gf anniversary,so coincidence.

We been together already 3 years and a month, izzit very long already? For me is very long liao, cause i saw mostly people just date for a few month then break.

But i feel the people who dating at these age will certainly be longer. I always question myself, would i able to continue till wedding? Old? Forever? My heart is like that think, but i saw so many sad cases , even dating 9 years also can break.

Other couple that lovely than me also can break, really anything also possible. So this question bother me some time already.

Today keep on thinking,finally end up a solution. That is I have to make myself clear that i have to continue love her and i will no matter what happen. This sounds fake for you all, even myself also feel fake. But I know that if i didn't do anything, i sure loose everything include her.

So i need tell myself everyday that i will continue love my gf-Ang Shee Wei

Love You Forever!!!

I guess some of u also facing the same dilemma as me,hope my thinking will help you. Or maybe you have the better solution then can tell me. Just share your opinion.

Hope you all wont sick of reading my 心事 =)

Most Scary Creature On Earth??

What is the most scary creature on earth? For me, my answer is HUMAN!!!
Why i say so, because gone through all these year, quite a number of people are "double face".!! And the other face are very scary, will eat you any moment.

No offence. I'm not saying u all, just some of the other people , or maybe is u also, who knows? Just wanna share my experience to you all.
Trust me, a really good friend are always hard to find. For some that have a lot friend , don't think that all friend with you are very good, they will let u get into a trap any moment. Maybe most of you already understand all these thing, i just to remind those who still blur blur.

For my opinion, really must very careful in making friend. Some of friend are really helpful to you but some always give you trouble. Don't put too much feeling on a friend relationship, because some person are very emotional. Once they found out that his/her friend betray them, then they will do stupid thing like revenge or what.

Friend just friend , don't too mind what they said and how they treat you. If the friend betray you then u should be thankful , thanks for letting you know the true of him/her early. So pull yourself out of the relationship as fast as possible before any more harmful things happen.

And some of the people are too smart. Till the end of your life also wont know your friend betray you. I know an effective way too prevent all these thing happen. Not 100% la, but will help also. Is watch more drama about these kind of things, you may learn from it. For me is very usefull la..!

Of cause i not 100% a good friend to you all, but also got 99.9% laaa..Haha, joking la. Of cause some will feel i'm not a good friend. Well, it depend on you all, i'm ok with that. Hope you all enjoying what i wrote. Some may feel i writting rubbish. Haha. All of you are please to leave a comment , share any idea that you have.