Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Make Things Clear

The purpose i post this topic is to make something clear that was chat in the cbox.

Some people misunderstand the topic of "most scary creature on earth" in the preview post. Got 2 person that I don't know ,named "Monkey" and "Gold Fish" comment about my topic. Through the way they comment, can see that they thought I wrote about someone else.

Its true that I was writing someone else. But the person that i wrote is my friend's friend that i don't even know his name.At here I can assure that you both misundestand what i wrote


31 Mar 09, 17:28
Monkey: u scare double face?but u like multi facer

31 Mar 09, 17:31
Monkey: dun just listen a side...ppl like to create stories..hope u understand

31 Mar 09, 17:34
Monkey: i think the one who blur blur is u..wake up ...but i know u wont

31 Mar 09, 17:34
Monkey: ya..ur rubbish is meaningful..

31 Mar 09, 17:35
Monkey: if u know more the all the things hide from u..then u will change ur mind..definitely

31 Mar 09, 19:25
Gold fish: yes.many things that you still do not know. you cannot just hear 1 side only, even ur most lovely person

31 Mar 09, 22:17
Monkey: Some not just tell a part..but will create more n more!!!

31 Mar 09, 23:35
Monkey: i just gv an example..dun think too much..but is time to learn be an adult..dun just listen a side..tat's all!


Monkey, although you said you just give an example, but the way u comment so 激动. I'm sure that you saying something, but I don't know what is it. I think is you think too much, not me. Whatever that you are thinking now obviously is just a misunderstand.

I agree with you that dont't just listen a side. But you know the truth of its meaning? Since you like that comment, means that you also just listen a side. What I mean here that is you hear a side then you feel that another side is wrong. How you know the side that you heard is true or false? Maybe is true and maybe is false, we don't know. Most of the people also is like that, hear from one side then feel is correct, then will they go and hear another side? Very less people will go hear both side then only judge. Even if you hear both side, can you all sure that when you judge is justice and no help any side?

Monkey/Gold Fish, you both say that still many things hide from me that i don't know. Maybe there is more things that you also don't know? It sound very dramatic izit? But sometimes it is like that.Maybe what you know is correct also.All I want to say is don't judge something too fast. I dont't know who you talking and what thing that you mention. If can then email me and tell me, I would like to know also.

my mail is c5003@hotmail.com

Thank you that you wan to remind me about something.But i would like to let you know that I very interest in psycology thing and human's nature. I got learn and do some research on that, so I got my own way to judge something whether is good or bad, true or false.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Facial

Today after i went to do facial along with my parent and second sister. The facial shop named "Tiffany" and located at lorong selamat.

Actually the shop just do girl business, since my sis use to work at there before , so me and my dad have the "free pass". The whole process is about 2 hour more. During the process is very relaxing, somemore will massage for you.

My parent fall asleep , yet still making noises, Lol. Luckily the room have no other customer. The room very dark and very comfortable, a suitable place for sleep. And my sis take some picture during my parent sleep.


Haha. Its me! My sis taking picture.


This is my dad. Looks alike? My dad ask me to delete this photo, but end up i upload the photo at here. Luckily he duno surf my blog, or not i will be dead.


Saya mia mama. So relax.


Nothing do take picture of the mirror and the flower.


My dad and my mum.Both also sleeping.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Long Distance Relationship And Breaking Up

I found an article from my friend's blog.Quite interesting story.



"Me and my high school sweetheart were together for about 2 years. We broke up 2 years ago. The reason.. I'm staying where I am now, and he's leaving for his studies. It would take about 6 years to complete his studies in KL and US. We broke up before he left, it was his idea. He mentioned about us going different paths, and would not see each other for a long time. He did not give me any promises to wait for us to graduate or ask me to wait for him, although I wished that he could at least ask.

He's more mature than me, and maybe he knows that he can't 'tie' me since he's not sure about his future, if our long-distanced relationship would survive. Actually I don't mind waiting for him at all, but I never told him that. I didn't want to give him any burden when he needs full concentration on studies. He told me that if we're really meant for each other, even the east and west can't separate us.
When we broke up, he told me he wants to focus on his studies and would not think of having any girlfriend yet.

I took it as a promise he gave that he would want me back someday if he wants to be romantically involved with someone again someday. We were each other's first love, and the only love until now.
I missed him a lot in these 2 years after we broke up. Sometimes I just wonder if he misses me too. We accidentally bumped into each other last December when he was back from KL and it really caught me off guard. We were both shocked. Not even knowing what to say. I wished so much that he would talk to me, but he didn't. (Well, I didn't take the chance start a conversation too.) On my birthday, he would send me an sms and wish me Happy Birthday.

I was really thrilled and that was the only present I wanted.
So, I sent him an email, telling him how I felt when I met him that day. I told him I didn't email him or call him or find him in msn because I'm not sure if he feels comfortable that way. But today, he sent me an offline message saying that he read my email and he told me to drop by anytime when i wanna chat, he said he doesn't mind. I don't know if he has already gotten over me, but one thing I'm sure is that I still like him, and part of my heart is telling me to wait for him. I've never met anyone that makes me feels the same way after we broke up. I've tried to get over him again and again, but sometimes I still believe there's possibilities that we would be together again someday. I keep reminding myself that he's just being friendly, and it has nothing to do with any other special feelings. But I couldn't persuade myself. What do you think about my story?

Is it very silly of me not to tell him that I wanted to wait for him? Or I shouldn't even be waiting at all? It was really tough for me for the first half year after we broke up, because I agreed the break very unwillingly, although knowing the reason is really reasonable. It's the best for us."




I really feel that this girl very stupid. I don't understand why she wan break up at the beginning. Just go other state study , that all only. Not mean that he will never come back. And that day he also came back and met with her.

Study just a reason to lie each other. If he really is mature, then he should know that love and study can be separately handle. And she should let him know exactly what she felt with him. Maybe the result wont be same anymore.

I very 佩服 the girl also, can wait untill 2 years after the break.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Happy 92th birthday to my Grandpa

Wow. My ah kong is already 92 years old. You see inside the picture he still so strong.
You all see the child with my grandpa.They all say when i small just like him.Lol



Now average eh people also live until 70-80 only.I havent told you all that my grandpa got a cousin even older, that is 106 years old. Unbelievable izzit?

I heard people said that short people have longer life because the heart no need pump so much to whole body. I already short and my grandpa even shorter than me ko.Maybe is genetic problem also. Maybe I also will live untill over 100 something, who know? Haha.

That day night we went to a restaurant eat. It located beside the jelutong high way there. Hmm, at Shell petrol station there. I advice you all don't go there try. Because it's expensive and no good. It cost us 2.6k for 3 table. Dammit, charge also 200 already. Damn crazy restaurant .

Monday, March 9, 2009

The Day Of Wedding

Damn damn that day so busy. I have to be the driver.

So shock that I've been ask to drive the 1st car- Camry . Got 2 main car, 1 is camry and another 1 is my mum's civic.

When reach at the bride house, then they starting to play. Ko eat geli eh food, ko pumping , ko sing. Then tio start to "lim teh" liao.



After "lim teh", biao ge and biao shao start to give ang pao. I cant take because is at girl side. So many wedding eh tradition that i duno .
After finish "lim teh" at the girl side. Then tio go to my biao ge house. I need to go in their room and "zeng1 tang3 phui3". Know? A thing that last time people use to pee into it. Then it cover with red paper then i need to break the paper and take the inside 2 orange and an ang pou. Somemore need me to roll on their bed because they say dragon year eh people roll very good 1.Wakaka, that day i totaly get RM40 something ang pao. 1 is as a driver, another is "zeng tang phui", and last is they extra give me, haha.


After that tio go to the boy side "lim teh".My grandma and grandpa damn happy. My grandma somemore give the bride a gold necklace. She didnt even tear off the price tag, haha.


They both looking at me wor. Izzit wan me "lim teh" also? Lol



The 伴郎 and 伴侣 looks like couple right. Actually they were couple before, but now no more already.



My grandma and grandpa have 6 daugther and 4 son. All inside this picture.




Lol. All people watching my biao ge kissing.



Me and my gf

Biao shao and my gf


My gf and my grandma

"Lao Tia Meh"

Haha. 6 of march is my cousin "Lao Tia Meh"

Got one "Seh Kia Hmm" damn very funny. Make all of us laugh non stop. Always say many dirty eh thing.

See her shoes , so high.



my biao ge wearing pyjamas



Damn this is a crazy "seh kia hmm"

Thursday, March 5, 2009

The Day Before Wedding

Wakaka...!! Is the day before wedding..! Sorry for such in hurry. Forget to inform u all.

Yeah! I'm gonna marry tomorrow. Today i went to the bridal house to 绑花车.




Stay tune for further news..!!! I will update tomorrow if I'm free.